Friday 4 May 2012

Keeping shush.

Disclaimer:This post is not a work of fiction but any resemblance to real persons,living or dead,is purely coincidental.*cough*

With exams just sneaking around about,thought id get a post in before my mind starts gets too clattered with the rubbish i study and wont let me think clearly.

So anyways.
Ever had a fight with someone and stormed off by telling them "You wont understand" or ever been told those words or something along the lines of  "If only you could see things from my point of view"?.
I'm sure you've been on both sides, so here's a thought,we've always been told to let things out and not keep anything inside as it increases stress and shit like that which in turn is not good for health.(load of BS).


Let me tell you a bunch of stuff you'll never understand.


Sure,its not good to keep things bottled up inside and to a certain extent you need to tell people what's happening and its always good to get a different perspective and opinion on an issue,but there's a fine line in these things.

If a friend of yours is telling you about a certain problem of his/her, your probably very receptive the first time,but its when they go on and on that it gets a tad annoying.

Funnily enough,you've probably done the same at some particular time,and he would've thought the same.
Yet we go through the motions cause of the great social obligations of society.You stop giving real advice,you give him the cliched shit, your friend knows it too,yet you go through with it,cause apparently its mean not to.

So why do we do it then?..I don't know i'm not a psychiatrist.

Heh.


All I'm saying is sometimes its probably best to just keep certain things to yourself, rather than blaming the other person for not "understanding" your situation or problem at the time, just think of it from his/her point of view.

Is it really that bad to hold on to something and just keep it for your brain to work on and think about?.
For me,its that time just before sleeping where my brain just wont stop with the damn thinking and ill let out some stupid stuff which ill regret in the morning.


Anyways,no offence to anyone out there,not targeted to anyone in particular,just thought id get my views across,and if you really cant keep your problems in,join twitter.

PS:CID tonight,woohoo!

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